The truth is...
When I left my family that blizzardry night - I went to a bridge looking to jump off…
When I looked down and I realized the water wasn't deep enough to kill me.
There's a good chance that if the water had been deep enough, I would have jumped.
But that didn't happen.
Thank God. It bought me enough time to ask myself, "What do you really want, Buihe?"
In that moment, I had a revelation:
If I don't die on this bridge, the version of me that took me there HAS to die.
And so I took myself to a hotel.
While there, I realized that the life I wanted to live moving forward had to be based on acceptance, generosity of spirit to others, and LOVE. Love was most important.
This was the Good Life - and that's all I wanted. A good. Freaking. Life.
* I decided I’d agree and end a 5-year marriage.
* I chose to show up every day with courage, tenacity, and boldness.
* And I committed to share what got me through this with others - without it being yet another ego
trip.
And all of that was the catalyst for everything you see today.
Today, I do lifestyle-centered TV segments...and I consult others on how to create meaningful lives.
I help men (and women) look their legendary best in everyday and work life.
I have traveled the country, lecturing at Universities, speaking at Symposiums and Commencements…
...and I even wrote two books!
I’m a far cry from where I was that night on the bridge.
And I owe it all to what I just shared with you above.